Recognising the men living with dementia
It is well documented that more women are diagnosed with dementia than men, with women making up around 65% of people living with dementia in the UK. Even so, a significant number of men are affected, and at Kimbrose we are seeing that reflected in our own club, where just over 30% of members are now men, with more joining each month.
This steady increase has encouraged us to think carefully about how we deliver activities and how we can make sure we are meeting the needs of our male members. We know that everyone experiences dementia differently, but we have also seen that some of our men really value spending time with others in a group of their peers, where conversation can happen naturally through shared interests and practical activities.
A growing part of our Kimbrose community
This July, we are excited to launch the Kimbrose Old Boys Club, led by team member Dawn. Following a successful 12-week programme of weekly sport sessions hosted by Kingsholm, Dawn identified that some of our men connected especially well in a male peer group. We also know that men and women can sometimes communicate differently, and that while some people feel comfortable speaking openly about their feelings and challenges, others may prefer to talk while doing something side by side. When dementia is added into the mix, feelings of isolation and loneliness can easily grow.
So, what can our club members expect from our men’s group? Monthly trips out to Place such as Kingsholm rugby ground, museums and place of interest, some woodwork, mending and making bird boxes and planters. Card games, dominoes and skittles along with some sports chat, banter and laughter.
Trips, tools, games and good company
At Kimbrose, our aim is always to provide activities that feel meaningful, familiar and enjoyable for each individual. The Kimbrose Old Boys Club is another way for us to support friendship, confidence and connection, while giving our male club members a space that feels relaxed, purposeful and fun. We are really looking forward to seeing the group develop over the coming months and, most importantly, seeing the enjoyment it brings to those who take part.
If you or someone you know is living with dementia and would benefit from friendship, meaningful activities and a welcoming place to spend the day, Kimbrose Club could help. Please get in touch with Gloucester Charities Trust to find out more about the support available.
